The Bar Mitzvah idea
Contrary to typical usage, Bar Mitzvah, strictly speaking, refers to a person who has reached adulthood according to Jewish law. It does not refer to the ceremony or party used to mark the occasion, though many people use the term this way. Becoming Bar Mitzvah, a son of the commandment, is a very important time in the life of a Jewish individual. It is the first time a person is recognized as having reached adulthood according to Jewish law. It is the age at which the responsibility of following Jewish law and tradition transfers from the parents to their child.
Once reaching adulthood, a male can participate fully in all Jewish rituals and areas of community life. Because many Jewish males do not wear a tallit, or prayer shawl, before becoming an adult, one is often given to the boy by his parents as a Bar Mitzvah gift. B'nai Mitzvah are considered responsible for their own actions, eligible to be called to read from the Torah, old enough to be married according to Jewish law, and responsible for performing mitzvot (e.g., fasting on Yom Kippur). These are only a few examples of the rights and responsibilities bestowed on an individual upon reaching the age of Jewish adulthood.
Bar Mitzvah gift ideas
A boy becomes Bar Mitzvah at age 13, and the event is usually celebrated with a ceremony. A celebratory party may follow at which attendees usually give a Bar Mitzvah gift. Typical gifts include religious-themed books or music, an engraved picture frame or memory box, a nice watch, or writing implements, such as a fine pen and pencil set. Presenting a book on the history or architecture of Israel is a good Bar Mitzvah idea. Another unique and thoughtful gift that will remind the individual of his Jewish faith and obligations for years to come is our beautifully framed "Bar Mitzvah Blessing" designed by internationally renowned artist Gad Almaliah.
Oftentimes, making a charitable donation is part of this momentous time for the celebrant. Because of this, many guests will choose to give money, which can used by the individual to meet his obligation. The number 18 is very significant in the Jewish faith, because it is the numerical value of the word "chai," meaning life. Giving a savings bond or monetary gift in an amount that is a multiple of 18 is another popular Bar Mitzvah idea.
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